Whenever there were group projects back in high school or college, I always hoped that there was someone in the group that was good at public speaking,
because I DID NOT want to be in front of the class. The fear of messing up, looking foolish, getting made fun of and failing my group always plagued my thoughts when it came to public speaking.
However over the last two years, I’ve spoken in front of more people than I ever have in my life, so what changed? My mindset about fear changed.
Now I didn’t say I was any good when I started — in fact, I was terrible in the beginning, but I learned three things from my mentors that helped me shift my stinking thinking:
1. If it scares you, it means you should do it.
2. There is no growth inside your comfort zone.
3. You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to START to be great.
Earlier this month I was asked to do a 4-hour training event in Chicago because the scheduled speaker, who’s also one of the top leaders in the company, wasn’t going to make it, so someone had to step up. Without hesitation, I said yes. Why? Because it scared the crap outta me and I had NEVER done anything like this before.
If somebody offers you an amazing opportunity but you are not sure you can do it, say yes – then learn how to do it later!
It ended up being one of the most fun events I’ve ever attended. Amazing things happen when not only YOU are stepping outside of your comfort zones but when you are ENCOURAGING OTHERS to do so as well. I want to give a big shout out to the amazing people that put it together and I can’t wait to come back in the future!